2018年英语二 小标题匹配

第 1 段

Conversations are links, which means when you have a conversation with a new person a link gets formed and every conversation you have after that moment will strengthen the link.

交谈是联系的纽带,这意味着当你与一个新的人交谈时就形成了一条纽带,而在那之后你们进行的每一次交谈都会加强这条纽带。

第 2 段

You meet new people every day: the grocery worker, the cab driver, new people at work or the security guard at the door. Simply starting a conversation with them will form a link.

你每天都会遇到新的人:杂货店员工、出租车司机、工作中的新同事或门口的保安。仅仅是与他们开始一段交谈就会形成一条纽带。

第 3 段

Here are five simple ways that you can make the first move and start a conversation with strangers.

以下是五种简单的方法,可以让你主动出击,与陌生人开始交谈。

第 4 段

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直接说出来

第 5 段

Suppose you are in a room with someone you don't know and something within you says "I want to talk with this person" – this is something that mostly happens with all of us. You wanted to say something – the first word – but it just won't come out, it feels like it is stuck somewhere. I know the feeling and here is my advice: just get it out.

假设你和一个不认识的人在同一个房间里,你内心有个声音说"我想和这个人交谈"——这种情况在我们大多数人身上都会发生。你想说点什么——说出第一个字——但就是说不出来,感觉像是卡在某个地方了。我理解这种感觉,这是我的建议:直接说出来。

第 6 段

Just think: what is the worst that could happen? They won't talk with you? Well, they are not talking with you now! So keep it simple: "Hi", "Hey" or "Hello" – do the best you can to gather all of the enthusiasm and energy you can, put on a big smile and say "Hi".

想想看:可能发生的最糟糕的情况是什么?他们不会和你说话?嗯,他们现在也没在和你说话!所以保持简单:"嗨"、"嘿"或"你好"——尽你所能聚集所有的热情和能量,露出一个灿烂的笑容,说"嗨"。

第 7 段

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跳过寒暄

第 8 段

It is a problem all of us face; you have limited time with the person that you want to talk with and you want to make this talk memorable.

这是我们所有人都面临的一个问题;你与想要交谈的人在一起的时间有限,而你想让这次交谈令人难忘。

第 9 段

Honestly, if we got stuck in the rut of "hi", "hello", "how are you?" and "what is going on?", you will fail to give the initial jolt to the conversation that can make it so memorable.

老实说,如果我们陷入"嗨"、"你好"、"你好吗?"和"最近怎么样?"的窠臼,你就无法给交谈带来最初的那种能让它如此难忘的冲击。

第 10 段

So don't be afraid to ask more personal questions. Trust me, you'll be surprised to see how much people are willing to share if you just ask.

所以不要害怕问更私人的问题。相信我,你会惊讶地发现,只要你问,人们愿意分享的东西会有多少。

第 11 段

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找到"我也是"

第 12 段

When you meet a person for the first time, make an effort to find the things which you and that person have in common so that you can build the conversation from that point. When you start conversation from there and then move outwards, you'll find all of a sudden that the conversation becomes a lot easier.

当你第一次遇到一个人时,努力找到你和那个人的共同点,这样你就可以从那一点开始建立交谈。当你从那里开始交谈,然后向外延伸时,你会突然发现交谈变得容易多了。

第 13 段

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全神贯注

第 14 段

Imagine you are pouring your heart out to someone and they are just busy on their phone, and if you ask for their attention you get the response "I can multitask".

想象一下,你正在向某人倾诉衷肠,而他们却只顾着玩手机,如果你要求他们注意,你得到的回应是"我可以一心多用"。

第 15 段

So when someone tries to communicate with you, just be in that communication wholeheartedly. Make eye contact. Trust me, eye contact is where all the magic happens. When you make eye contact, you can feel the conversation.

所以当有人试图与你交流时,要全身心地投入到那次交流中。进行眼神交流。相信我,眼神交流是所有魔力发生的地方。当你进行眼神交流时,你能感受到交谈。

第 16 段

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姓名、地点、事物

第 17 段

You all came into a conversation where you first met the person, but after some time you may have met again and have forgotten their name. Isn't that awkward! So, remember the little details of the people you met or you talked with; perhaps the places they have been to, the places they want to go, the things they like, the things they hate – whatever you talk about.

你们都曾进入一次交谈,在那里你第一次遇到了那个人,但过了一段时间你们可能又见面了,却忘记了他们的名字。那不是很尴尬吗!所以,记住你遇到的或与你交谈过的人的小细节;也许是他们去过的地方、他们想去的地方、他们喜欢的东西、他们讨厌的东西——无论你们谈论什么。

第 18 段

When you remember such things you can automatically become an investor in their wellbeing. So they feel a responsibility to you to keep that relationship going.

当你记住这些事情时,你就会自动成为他们幸福的投资者。所以他们会对你感到有责任维持这段关系。

第 19 段

That's it. Five amazing ways that you can make conversation with almost anyone. Every person is a really good book to read, or to have a conversation with!

就是这样。五种神奇的方法,你可以用它们与几乎任何人交谈。每个人都是一本非常好的书,值得去阅读,或者值得去交谈!